Domestic violence does not respect class, race, religion, culture or wealth.
The public tends to reason that women who are victims of domestic violence usually fall into the lower income ranges -- those who have not had the advantages of higher education or a functional upbringing.
But, I assure you, abuse knows no boundaries.
The truth is that domestic abuse permeates every socio-economic level. Middle and upper class women who survive abusive relationships tend not to speak of it because of the social stigma and isolation that surround it. To heal in private -- behind dark glasses and closed blinds -- is far better than to be seen by others.
There is no witness protection program for the victim of domestic abuse. Her or his fear is real; the threat is real; and the pathway to freedom appears complex. For some, the shame is crushing. The shame is deeper than embarrassment -- it is mortifying, humiliating and dehumanizing.
Domestic violence is not a family matter, but a communitywide public health epidemic.
Thankfully, our community has SafeNet, an organization committed to ending domestic violence, affirming human dignity and delivering comprehensive direct services to victims of domestic violence. SafeNet provides sanctuary, support, education and advocacy.
